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The Rules of Civility by Amor Towles
Historical fiction

The Rules of Civility

3peat author

Amor Towles is officially a 3-time author at BOTM, which is a pretty big deal!


We love supporting debut authors. Congrats, Amor Towles, on your first book!

by Amor Towles

Quick take

As refreshing and sophisticated as a well-made martini. This book revives the New York high society of yesteryear.

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On the last night of 1937, twenty-five-year-old Katey Kontent is in a second-rate Greenwich Village jazz bar when Tinker Grey, a handsome banker, happens to sit down at the neighboring table. This chance encounter and its startling consequences propel Katey on a year-long journey into the upper echelons of New York society'”where she will have little to rely upon other than a bracing wit and her own brand of cool nerve.

With its sparkling depiction of New York’s social strata, its intricate imagery and themes, and its immensely appealing characters, Rules of Civility won the hearts of readers and critics alike.

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Why I love it

As fans of The Gentleman of Moscow know, Amor Towles has a gift for capturing a certain time and place in history and putting his readers immediately there. His debut novel is Towles at his most playful: The Rules of Civility is set in the jazz clubs and swanky bars of late 1930s New York City, when a plucky young woman who’s barely scraping by gets swept up into the world of Manhattan’s elite. The book is a gem, with dialogue so cinematic you could imagine Katharine Hepburn firing off Towles’s lines.

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Member ratings (3,916)

  • Stephanie W.

    Pontoon Beach, IL

    IMO, a great story should do 3 things: educate, invoke an emotional response (or many), and leave the reader with a sense of longing upon conclusion. I will be rereading this for years to come. 5/5 ⭐️

  • Erin J.


    I'm sad it took me this long to read Amor Towles. Rules of Civility is a glittering gem—a slow burn with engrossing characters you'll become emotionally attached to. One of my all-time favorite books.

  • Jessica W.

    Chicago, IL

    Clever period piece that discusses the choices we make based on obligations, friendship, love, and who we think we are. I loved A Gentleman in Moscow so much—this book was disappointing in comparison

  • Leora C.

    Red Bank, TN

    This book transported me through time and allowed me to live the life of a flapper, a writer, and an elitist! After reading this book, I plan on ordering her other books. He Writing was from the ages.

  • Alexxa R.

    Lexington Park, MD

    This is my second of Amor’s! His books are more about the details than show-stopping surprises. I loved the setting and Katey’s character! I did find myself wanting a little more throughout though