Smitten by Tom Bellamy

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Smitten by Tom Bellamy

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Smitten

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A neuroscience-backed look at why crushes spiral, people fixate, and love goes off the rails.

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Synopsis

“Butterflies” in the stomach, intrusive thoughts, fantasies about imaginary scenarios, mood swings from euphoria to despair… aren't these all the familiar hallmarks of new love? Not quite. These are characteristics of the psychological state of “limerence,” also known as obsessive, passionate or addictive love that can become unhealthy.

Millions of people experience limerence at some point in their life. In this book, neuroscientist Tom Bellamy explores advances in neuroscience since the term was coined in the 1970s, and sheds light on this little-understood element of the human experience. Discover:

· what drives limerence

· how to recognize limerence in yourself and others

· how to manage the phases of addiction to another person

· how to move past it to sustain longer, more fulfilling relationships.

With supportive advice about next steps, this audiobook will help listeners struggling with unwanted feelings to find emotional equilibrium. Rooted in neuroscience, Smitten offers practical guidance for those experiencing obsessive love and seeking a path to a healthy relationship.

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A Thousand Naked Strangers
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