Smitten by Tom Bellamy
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Smitten by Tom Bellamy

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Smitten

by Tom Bellamy

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A neuroscience-backed look at why crushes spiral, people fixate, and love goes off the rails.

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Synopsis

“Butterflies” in the stomach, intrusive thoughts, fantasies about imaginary scenarios, mood swings from euphoria to despair… aren't these all the familiar hallmarks of new love? Not quite. These are characteristics of the psychological state of “limerence,” also known as obsessive, passionate or addictive love that can become unhealthy.

Millions of people experience limerence at some point in their life. In this book, neuroscientist Tom Bellamy explores advances in neuroscience since the term was coined in the 1970s, and sheds light on this little-understood element of the human experience. Discover:

· what drives limerence

· how to recognize limerence in yourself and others

· how to manage the phases of addiction to another person

· how to move past it to sustain longer, more fulfilling relationships.

With supportive advice about next steps, this audiobook will help listeners struggling with unwanted feelings to find emotional equilibrium. Rooted in neuroscience, Smitten offers practical guidance for those experiencing obsessive love and seeking a path to a healthy relationship.

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Good Joy, Bad Joy
Theo of Golden
Smitten
The Uncool
The Second Chance Cinema
The Love Haters
Free
It’s Getting Hot in Here
These Precious Days
Inside Out
The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern
The Same Bright Stars
Joe Nuthin’s Guide to Life
How to Read a Book
Did I Ever Tell You?
Sociopath
The Last Love Note
Thicker Than Water
The Many Lives of Mama Love
The Connellys of County Down
The Collected Regrets of Clover
Finding Me
A Quiet Life
We Are the Light
The Fortunes of Jaded Women
Peach Blossom Spring
Somebody's Daughter
The Choice
A Little Hope
The People We Keep
More Myself
This Close to Okay
The Last Story of Mina Lee
The Boyfriend Project
Yes No Maybe So
Throw Like a Girl
The Ten Thousand Doors of January
If Only I Could Tell You
Things You Save in a Fire
Summer of '69
All the Light We Cannot See
Beyond the Point
A Woman Is No Man
How to Walk Away
The Great Alone
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Good Joy, Bad Joy
Theo of Golden
Smitten
The Uncool
The Second Chance Cinema
The Love Haters
Free
It’s Getting Hot in Here
These Precious Days
Inside Out
The Love Elixir of Augusta Stern
The Same Bright Stars
Joe Nuthin’s Guide to Life
How to Read a Book
Did I Ever Tell You?
Sociopath
The Last Love Note
Thicker Than Water
The Many Lives of Mama Love
The Connellys of County Down
The Collected Regrets of Clover
Finding Me
A Quiet Life
We Are the Light
The Fortunes of Jaded Women
Peach Blossom Spring
Somebody's Daughter
The Choice
A Little Hope
The People We Keep
More Myself
This Close to Okay
The Last Story of Mina Lee
The Boyfriend Project
Yes No Maybe So
Throw Like a Girl
The Ten Thousand Doors of January
If Only I Could Tell You
Things You Save in a Fire
Summer of '69
All the Light We Cannot See
Beyond the Point
A Woman Is No Man
How to Walk Away
The Great Alone